Be More You
Stop shrinking. “Being nice” isn’t the same as being true.
You’ve done the inner work — and still find yourself shrinking in the moments that matter most.
I help women stop abandoning themselves, trust their voice, and live as their true selves — in relationships, work, and everyday life. Without losing love — or losing yourself.
If becoming more of you feels risky…you’re not alone.
Many women learned that being fully themselves meant:
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being too much
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being misunderstood
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being left
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losing love
So you adapted. You softened. You edited yourself.
This is where that pattern ends.
Your Core Transformation
Do you ever hear yourself say “yes” when your whole body is saying “no”?
Do you soften your truth to keep the peace — and then feel the quiet resentment later?
You're not alone.
Most women weren’t taught how to be honest and stay loved.
Inside this work, you will:
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Identify where you learned to abandon yourself (and why it once felt safer)
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Release the fear of being fully seen — without collapsing into people-pleasing
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Reclaim your voice, your boundaries, and your honest desires
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Build the nervous system capacity to stay rooted when things get uncomfortable
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Live aligned without losing connection — or losing yourself
This isn't surface-level empowerment.
This is embodied identity reclamation — the kind that changes how you show up in real life.
This is the work of choosing truth over “being nice.”
Of stopping the habit of leaving yourself behind.
From reaction to presence.
From self-abandonment to self-trust.
From surviving… to being fully, unapologetically you.
This is the work we begin inside the 4-Week Identity Reclamation Circle.
A small, live 4-week journey for women ready to stop shrinking and start living fully — in real life, not just in theory.
Week by week, you’ll move through:
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The hidden places you’ve learned to shrink
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The fear of being fully seen (and how it runs your choices)
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Reclaiming your voice with love and self-respect
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Living aligned without losing connection — or losing yourself
This is a held, intentional space where transformation becomes embodied.
Enrollment is open. Spots are limited.
If you’re ready to stop editing yourself, start here.
For women ready to integrate this work long-term — with weekly guidance, embodied practices, and a private community that helps you stay rooted in who you are.
This is where your growth becomes your way of life.
→ Learn About Inner Circle
Meet Your Guide
Mindy Arbuckle
I help women stop abandoning themselves — and start living as who they truly are.
I’m Mindy Arbuckle — ritual artist, teacher, and guide for women who feel called to live more honestly and more fully.
After 25 years of teaching yoga, mantra, embodiment, and feminine wisdom, I’ve learned this:
Most women don’t need more insight. They need support to stay rooted when it matters.
Because knowing isn’t the same as living.
And “being nice” isn’t the same as being true.
My work blends practical embodiment and nervous system support with sacred ritual — so your transformation holds in real life.
If you’re ready to stop editing yourself, you’re in the right place.
Curious how this work came to be?
Read My Story →
How This Works
This work moves from:
Insight → Integration → Embodiment
Because it’s not enough to know what’s true.
You need the support to live it — especially when it’s uncomfortable.
Through:
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Live weekly sessions
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Nervous system integration
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Real-life application
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Supportive community
Whether through a focused program or ongoing support, this work helps you stop defaulting to old patterns — and start showing up as who you truly are.
Explore the Many Ways This Work Comes to Life
This work expresses itself in many forms — all supporting your journey back to yourself.
Live Goddess Gatherings & Workshops → View Upcoming Events
Devotional Music & Kirtan → Listen Here
Sacred Ritual Tools & Adornments → Visit the Shop
Private Energy Sessions → Book a Session
The Practice Portal (App) → Explore the App
Every offering supports one intention:
Helping you live more fully as yourself.
Ready to stop editing yourself?
You don’t have to figure it out alone.
Start with a small, held 4-week circle — and let this become real in your daily life.
Stay Connected
Get weekly clarity, ritual invitations, and embodied reminders — plus the free She Who Remembers guide.
