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Start Here

Stop shrinking.
Start living as you.

You’ve done the inner work — and still find yourself editing your truth to keep the peace.

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This is a path back to you — so you can live honestly and fully in real life:
in relationships, work, and everyday moments.

Learn about Inner Circle →

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You’re not broken. You’re ready.

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  • You say yes when you mean no

  • You soften your truth to keep the peace

  • You overthink how you’ll be perceived

  • You feel resentment after you people-please

  • You’re tired of shrinking to stay loved

  • You want to trust your voice and live more honestly

  • You’re ready for support that actually holds

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If you’re nodding, start with the 4-week Identity Reclamation Circle.

You’re in the right place if…

Your Best First Step

Be More You — 4-Week Identity Reclamation Circle

A small, live 4-week journey for women ready to stop shrinking and start living as who they truly are — in real life, not just in theory.

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You’ll learn to stay rooted in your truth — without losing love or losing yourself.

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What you’ll experience:

  • Weekly live guidance + real-life integration

  • Nervous system support when it’s uncomfortable

  • Clear practices to reclaim your voice and boundaries

  • A held community that helps you stay rooted in who you are

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Enrollment is open. Spots are limited to keep the space intimate.

Learn about Inner Circle →

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Choose Your Next Step

Pick the doorway that matches where you are right now.

Prefer to start quietly?
Begin with the book → "The Next Step "

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How This Works

This work isn’t just insight. It’s nervous system-based identity reclamation — so you can stay true to yourself in real moments, not just in your journal.

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Insight → Integration → Embodiment

  • Insight: Name the pattern — where you shrink, brace, or abandon yourself to stay “safe” or be seen as “nice.”

  • Integration: Practice in real time with support, tools, and nervous system regulation.

  • Embodiment: Become the woman who stays true — in conversations, boundaries, relationships, and everyday life.

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What Makes This Different:

  • Live weekly sessions (not passive content)

  • Real-life practice + compassionate accountability

  • Embodied tools that help you speak the truth without spiraling

  • Community that normalizes honesty and growth

 

Because transformation isn’t what you understand — it’s what you can hold when it matters.

Meet Mindy

Guide, teacher, and ritual artist for women ready to come home to themselves.

I help women stop abandoning themselves — and learn how to live with honesty, boundaries, and self-trust.
After 25 years of teaching embodiment, ritual, and sacred practice, I’ve learned this: insight matters, and support is what makes it real.

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If you’re ready to stop editing yourself, you’re in the right place.

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Read my story →

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Voices of the Sisterhood

What women are saying about coming home to themselves.

Christine: “This work helped me release self-limiting beliefs and come home to who I am. I trust myself more now — and I don’t abandon myself the way I used to.”

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​Mandy

“Solid as a rock — that’s how Mindy’s presence feels. She helped me feel seen, stay grounded, and handle my emotions without spiraling. I still feel the benefits in real life.”

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Patti

“Mindy holds a powerful, supportive space. I now feel clearer, more connected to myself, and more able to live as who I truly am.”

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Laurel

“I don’t get stuck the way I used to. I feel worthy, I trust myself more, and I have the freedom to live my life without being held back.”

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Anick

“Mindy offered exactly what I needed: unconditional acceptance, steady presence, and gentle empowerment. I felt safe to be honest — and it changed everything.”

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Ready to come home to yoursef?

If you’re done editing yourself to keep the peace, this is your doorway.
We’ll build self-trust — and the capacity to stay true — in real life.

Prefer ongoing support? Explore Inner Circle →

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